Oliver has got to be the cutest little boy in the whole world. Today in church, we sat in the second row. During the opening hymn, Oliver grabbed a hymnal from the pew in front of us and opened it up. He intently watched the chorister in front of us for a few seconds, and then he sat the book down in his lap and began to wave both of his arms in a circular pattern. At the same time, he started singing very softly, “Baa, baaaaa, ba ba.” He was conducting and singing the opening hymn!
He continued to conduct and sing for the entire hymn, after which he closed his hymnal and clapped. Then, like any good choir boy, he folded his arms (and even closed his eyes for a little bit, Kay informs me) for the prayer. I’ll admit, Kay and I glowed with just a little bit of pride (the righteous kind, I hope!). It is so fun to see Oliver learning and growing.
However, if you think that church was perfect for us let me quickly disabuse you of that notion. During the sacrament, Oliver grabbed one of the water cups and promptly dumped it all over himself, the bench, and my leg. Then, during Sunday school, he grabbed Kay’s pencil and drew on the chapel wall. (Worst of all, he proudly pointed to it again and again throughout the entire lesson!) Finally, during Priesthood and Relief Society Kay and I dragged a crying, screaming, struggling Oliver out to the car to head home early. He’s teething (at least we think) and he couldn’t handle any more church. Or at least Mom and Dad couldn’t handle any more church with a screaming child.
So we admittedly have a ways to go before we triumphantly conclude that we have raised the perfect child. Nonetheless, it’s nice to savor the progress as it comes!
If you’ve read this and haven’t yet checked our photos and videos, please do! I put up a couple of new photo albums and a couple of new videos earlier today.
I love to watch the Oliver Show.
My kids don’t get any sacrament bread or water unless they fold their arms for the prayers. It only took one or two times of missing out on that tiny piece of bread and 1/2 oz. of water before they learned that it was always better to fold their arms. If you can’t make them be good by explaining your altruistic motives, bribery is the next best choice.