In the backyard

More summer photos. Perhaps I’m just missing the good weather, but a lot of photos from the summer I originally thought were mediocre are looking really nice to me now. So here are the kids playing the sprinkler and keeping busy while we worked on the garden.

Nabby seems to have been born to swing into a sprinkler, she did it for at least an hour.

Oliver invents big spy-mission stories when he runs through the sprinkler. They involve volcanos and avoiding acid.

It’s not real sunny here, but the humidity helps keep you warm while you slowly dry off. Easier on your skin for sure.

This idea Oliver had to “swat away the bugs around the newly planted seeds” came from a game on the PBS kids Caillou site where you can plants seeds, water them, swat bugs away and watch them grow. We had already planted and watered so Oliver decided to get on with keeping bugs away and grabbed our fly swatter.

Nabby was busy finding worms and making them all comfortable in her bucket house with a bed made of leaves and blanket made of sand from the sand box.

When they dried up and stopped moving she asked if I thought they were cute when they were asleep. I said I did and mentioned they might get a little dry with just sand and that they might want some dirt, she said “no mom I know what to do” and poured a few cups of water in from the hose. Dried up… drowned… asleep… luckily it all looks the same.

One day I’ll learn when to just say yes and smile to what she says. Correction is so unnecessary when she’s three and there are 3 billion worms in the backyard. She was happy all the same in the end. She’s so cute when she cradles worms and bugs and talks to them in a sweet mothering tone.

Ann Arbor art fair

So this was in July.

I went out with my friends Anne and Seidi and our kids to see a couple streets of the art fair. The kids loved the snow cones, crafts and music. I loved hanging out with friends.

Okay, but I also loved comparing my art with everyone else’s. Come on.

Lots of art (in my opinion) were not better than my work. Disappointing at a fair this large. The best part though was finding the few artists with a more interesting style or more experience than me and asking them loads of questions. When I’m thinking about being a mom I work hard not to compare myself with other moms, but as an artist I let myself go. An art fair IS worth the time to look around as an artist. The Nt. Gallery, the DIA, and the graffiti downtown of course offer better examples to study (and I love studying them), but those artists aren’t standing around to talk with. A huge advantage at an art fair.

Aside, have I ever mentioned on this site how REALLY amazing the DIA is? I could post about it. The suits of armor alone…fah. You would die.

Of course the kids go crazy, insane and bored while I’m conducting these interviews. Maybe an indication that life isn’t tough enough. They did get to glue pompoms on butterfly and bear masks after all.

These first two are of Beth Borjarski’s tent. Her work was my favorite and she comes from an illustration background too so it was fun to talk.

Sky writing and the kids

A while back we went to the county farm park. It’s one of my favorites. We watched a plane sky writing for the football game that day.

A quick update on Oliver. I’m happy to say he has made leaps and bounds in adjusting to a full school day. He’s happy when he comes home, maybe just a little on edge, but still himself. He’s the kind of kid who likes to follow rules and be on top of what’s happening in class and I’m so proud of him. I see him now and then when I volunteer in his classroom.

Unfortunately he’s been up at night with bad dreams several nights in a row every other week. I know it’s normal development happening, but still, it’s hard. Jason is a hero and takes care of him every time he’s up at night. I find it near impossible to face the day if I’ve had more than two nights of poor sleep. Being woken once is fine, especially if it’s at the same time each night, but two or three times (or five) like Oliver has been at random times is hard to cope with. I hope he grows out of it before the baby comes. Jas really is a super human or something (robot? cyborg?). So kind and reasonable. He’ll even make eggs and toast for us after a night like that. Anyway, wish us luck.

Nabby has adjusted to Oliver being away too. I think she actually likes having her own space most the time. She plays and goes places with me and makes new friends at parks VERY easily. I love having her around. Here she is making things and chowing on a snack one morning.

Loads of fall colors out and we pick up some halloween costumes (I didn’t make them this year).

happy anniversary to us

We found a babysitter and went out to eat. Seafood! I had a massive bowl of cioppino and my husband of seven years ordered grilled salmon. I really liked the cole slaw with balsamic vinegar.

Then we walked down main and joined a free east coast swing dancing class near Lena’s. It was so cool. Ella, Count Basie. I remembered some steps from 12 years ago and Jas was really fantastic.

That’s our Ann Arbor wolf that plays the fiddle. He’s always there. Where we danced was upstairs, to the right of Lena’s in the background.

Some lovely gardens

This was a nice Saturday morning. We tromped around the botanic gardens and explored the children’s section mostly.

Nabby says this is “Mary” her sheep. If she had a goat it would be “Miss Goat”. Have I mentioned that she has her own goldfish and named it “Miss Mom” but just “Miss” for short.

We found a cabin down the trail.

We settled ourselves inside and then Oliver kindly served us some soup.

Toledo Zoo twice

Spent a couple Saturdays this summer at the zoo. Very nice new elephant area and naked mole rat wall. Naked mole rats live socially like bees. They have workers and a queen and live… like bees. Did anyone else know that? I didn’t before this summer. Of course I pay for it, but I appreciate the vast number of outdoor lunch tables and how clean the place is overall. We always take our own lunch and let the kids play at the “bear den playground” for a while to shake off the long drive.

The crowded “backyard” kids education building. I’ve avoided it in the past because often my point in going to the zoo is to spend time outside. Good idea for winter. It was our last trip before our pass expired so I didn’t fight going in or rush to get out and looking back the kids had a blast in there and I have some photos I like. Oliver loved the video room where he made up some pretty amazing dance moves with animal puppets on his head. He figured out where the camera was and watched himself on the screen for 20 mins or more.

Kabillions of animals. Lots anyway. Rhinos, penguins, cheetahs, polar bears, seals, giraffes, zebras, jellyfish, giant crabs, giant roaches (yes… live roaches..bah), gorillas, monkeys, poison tree frogs, birds, fish a plenty, and more. And buzzards (on the wall by the giraffes).

At the beach

We spent a Friday/Saturday camping at Ludington State Park the 1st and 2nd of August. First time camping with our kids. The heat and a thunderstorm had me thinking the kids would wake up as zombies, but they slept fine and had a great energy level the next day.

I loved camping as a kid. On this trip we did a lot more laying on the beach and a lot less hiking than I did with my family growing up, but there were still cheetos and those tiny individual boxes of sugar cereal. Sort of nostalgic for me.

I think the beaches here in Michigan (west coastline) are the best I’ve been to. The water was warm and shallow for a 100 ft out and the waves were super fun to play in. Really fine, clean sand to build with too.

The second day we walked to a lighthouse. There aren’t a lot open to the public to climb up. This one had a tour and gift shop. I liked the lighthouse so much I bought a miniature of it with a string to hang on the christmas tree.

Click on the first photo and look through them with the arrow keys (or just click on the photo with the mouse to see the next one). There’s so much better that way.

Vacation part 2

We did a lot over the summer. This was such a great trip. No colds, no throwing up. Even with the super early flight everyone slept well. Doesn’t get better than that in my book. My parents picked us up in Salt Lake and spent the afternoon with us checking out Temple square and the new shopping center. At home Grandma pulled out her old creepy crawlers machine and made bugs with the kids. There were nerf gun wars and swinging and swimming outside. One day we went canoeing in the Uintahs. We went swimming at scera pool, ate at Bombay house, and played with cousins. We saw the dinosaur museum and visited Julie and Jill. Then I got to spend fourth of July with Sue and Kyle. It had been a REALLY long five years since I’d seen Sue or shared a holiday with both of them. I loved it! Click on a photo and use the arrows for more captions.

Vacation Part 1

Vacation! We were very blessed to be able to take 3 weeks (yes, 3 whole weeks!) off this summer to go visit our families. It was so nice to relax and enjoy each other’s company. We are so grateful to Grandma and Grandpa Kotter for making this trip possible by helping with the cost of our tickets. We spent the first half of our trip in Idaho. Grandma and Grandpa picked us up from the airport in Salt Lake and drove us back to Idaho. Kara joined us from Utah later that evening and Alvin visited for a few days in between flights, so we had all of the family together. It was awesome!

Alvin convinced us to go and see an air show in Rexburg one Saturday. It was the first air show I had ever seen, and it was great! We had front row seats right on the runway and we had a perfect view of the stunt planes. It was crazy to see what those pilots could do.

Cute Cousins!

We had such a great time in Idaho. The kids loved playing with their cousins, Lucas, McKinley, and Nigel. We had fun building Legos (Kendal helped Oliver build an alien Lego set that he still talks about!), playing outside (Grandma helped Oliver find a “fort” by the field and they spent a lot of time fighting bad guys and poison – aka the sprinklers from the field), and eating wonderful food (Mom did an amazing job at feeding all of us!).

She loves Grandpa’s swing!

Abby loves to read stories with Grandma

Grandpa showed the grand kids how to use his tools

Of course, it wouldn’t be a Kotter/Fielding Party without a water fight.

One day we went to visit the Greenbelt to feed the ducks and geese and to see the temple.

Oliver, Kaitlin, and Kendal in front of the Idaho Falls Temple

Oliver and Lucas at the Greenbelt

There’s nothing like a walk with Grandma.

Yogurt! Yum!

Another day we drove to Mesa Falls. We enjoyed feeding the fish and then had a wonderful picnic lunch. On our hike to the old railroad tunnel, Oliver fell down and scraped his knee. It was bleeding pretty good, so Kay and I took him back to the car to wash it off and patch it up. He recovered quickly, though, and we were soon back at the railroad tunnel and climbing the rock slide. Oliver loved climbing the big rocks; he assured us that he didn’t need any help (and though it made me very nervous, I let him climb by himself). He was very proud of how high he could climb and he made sure that Grandma saw him.

Watching Great Grandpa feed the fish

Our trip was full of lots of other fun things as well. We went to Rexburg to try out a new family pool; the kids loved it. Abby especially loved the lazy river and wanted to go around it again and again. Kay actually made multiple trips to Rexburg to attend an art class with Kendal. She loved the opportunity to get away and draw for a few hours. We explored my Grandma Kotter’s barn and took pictures with the kids on Grandma’s old trikes, we had fun visiting Darin and Kryssi’s home and playing there, and Dad and I had some friendly games of “horse” (I won handily on the first couple of nights, but he warmed up and I mostly lost after that. He still has the basketball touch!) Somehow I didn’t get as many pictures as I would have liked, but I’ll have to get copies at some point from my mom. I love being with family!

My siblings!

Our new family photo – it’s great to have everyone together!

News from Ann Arbor

. . . where all the women train for marathons, all the men have piercings, and all the children eat falafel. These are stereotypes and not really fair ones because even Jason refuses to go for the earring look (and I’m glad) that many respected, professional men here sport. Like Levar Burton, but Mr. Burton doesn’t live here, just lots of guys have his style. Never mind, it should say, “all the men talk about football”.

Football season is the real news around here now that school has started. The marching band sounds as good as ever.

We took a pizza to the practice field a few nights ago and watched them rehearse. Nabby and Oliver brought toy instruments and played along. Nabby is good on the kazoo saxophone. Oliver loved conducting.

Can you see my kids on the left? They were trying to do everything the band did.

Squirrel holes out front

Jason carried Oliver on his shoulders and Nabby in his arms to the van when it was over. And left his backpack!!! We drove away without it and it was not there the next morning when we realized and went to look. Lost and found hasn’t seen it. He didn’t lose any expensive electronic gadgets because he doesn’t use any, but his grading work from t.a.ing an executive education course this semester was on a jump drive that was in there. That grading took him three nights (8 to midnight) to refinish. And his favorite umbrella is gone. Probably the homeless person with it now needed it more.

Squirrels are noteworthy too because they’re digging tiny holes all over the lawn to find seeds? worms? bury stuff? Funny things those little guys.